Realized that friend can actually disappoint you. (
OMG I’m back on blogging!)friend actually means - according to the dictionary
1. a person with whom one has a bond of mutual affection
2. a familiar or helpful thing
kinda disagree with the second point cause recently I’m totally struck with the way friends can disappoint me. (
why long time never blog dy?!)they are so unfamiliar and unhelpful to me.
Probably because I was the one who disappointed other people more, so I never had the feeling of being hurt by friends. (
so your new year resolution is to blog everday ar?!)that I’ve been trying to change. I tried to stop doing things that I did, changed the way I talk and act just to be a good friend to others. Like what I always believe, friendship involves two parties. I have to be a good friend to have a good one. Duh! (
why suddenly decide to blog again one?!)But for the past few days, things are just not right. When I talked to a friend, I felt like I’m talking to myself. When I’m at home, people just pretend that I’m not around, or probably do not exist at all. When I missed my alarm and overslept, nobody even bothers to wake me up. When I’m not feeling well, nobody bothers to concern about that.
I always make a point to treat other people well. Part of my new year resolution. For example, I always wake my housemate up if he missed his alarm so that he can take his bath and groom himself for class. I always make a point to share any good movies I watched with friends. I always buy my housemate snacks when he’s stressed up. I always pray for my friends.
Well, of course I don’t expect other people will do what I do. That won’t stop me from being a good friend to others though.
And I won’t stop loving my friends even if I wake up late and feel miserable,
I won’t stop recommending movies to my friends even if I were to watch them alone,
I won’t stop sharing my snacks with my friends even if I were to eat them up alone.
For we don’t do good things just because we want others to treat us well. Right? (
so when are you updating your blog next?! In a year time?! )Of course I still have good friends who are there to support me here in Manipal.
I got a friend who fed me so well that I could gain back all the nutrients that I’ve lost when I’m sick.
I got a friend who gave me 101 tips on how to make friendship special.
I got a friend who teaches me music during worship session.
I got a friend who hijacks my bike-ky-ker to go library that I had to walk to church. Haha!
And I can turn to Jesus whenever I’m lonely, for He is my best friend.
John 15:13 says, greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friend.
Jesus laid down his live for me!!!
Ps: nope, blogging is not my new year resolution. Will try to update as often as I can.